Mouth to mouth
Put in some time kissing before and during sex. According to a Lafayette College study, kissing lowers levels of the stress hormone cortisol, shortening the time it takes to arouse her.
But don’t just kiss her mouth. Research has shown that most women enjoy receiving neck kisses as a great warm up to sex. However, like any activity, mix it up.
Try this: every time you kiss her neck, remove an item of her clothing, then compliment her on each body part you’ve undressed. It’ll help you deal with body-confidence issues. A study by the University of Cincinnati revealed that if your girl feels good when she’s naked, she’ll come sooner.
Pay attention to all pleasure zones
You’ve probably heard of women’s obvious pleasure spots, which include the breasts, nipples, clitoris, and G-spot, but there are other areas that she’d love you to pay more attention to during foreplay.
These include the neck, scalp, wrists and inner thighs.
By changing things up and giving attention to these other erogenous zones, you heighten her arousal and make it easier for her to orgasm.
Try different positions
Mixing things up applies to sex positions as well. Some positions will help her orgasm more quickly than others, so have fun trying out what works best.
Consider these positions – they give her plenty of control and help stimulate the clitoris:
- Doggie style
- Reverse cowgirl
- Girl on top
- Ankles-up missionary
The important thing is that you both communicate your likes and dislikes, then experiment to see what feels best.
Secrets on how to give her an orgasm
There are a few secrets that are supposed to help women climax. Give these a try the next time you have the chance:
- Kiss the right side of her spine. This makes some women tingle and heightens sexual feelings.
- Wear a musky scent. This works because it mimics testosterone and heightens her libido. If she orgasms at that time when you wear that musky perfume, she’ll more likely climax again when you wear the same perfume because scent, memory, and sex are somehow closely connected in the brain.
- Warm up her feet. Scientists have discovered that the likelihood of women reaching orgasm is increased by 30% if her feet are warm.